MIND
GAMES AND BLURRED REALITY
by Bruce
Crawford
Mid-afternoon,
Tuesday, March 24. A fire alarm sounds. Teachers and students evacuate
the school as had been practiced. Pop-pop-pop. Gunfire rings out. Children
and teachers drop to the ground. Impressed, the audience
cheers. Until they realize that it wasn't a dramatization. A few
students had just applauded the death of their friends and a teacher!
This
horrific punctuation to a real-life tragedy hasn't been discussed much
in the media. John Kifner wrote about it in last Friday's (Mar.
27) New York Times. Arkansas talk radio has been abuzz about it. Little
has been said on the national level.
How
could students applaud the death of their classmates? Because
our educational system has trained them to do so. It
has practiced so many psychological games on our youngsters, that they
no longer can discern reality from a dramatization. Neither do they look
to adults for advice and counsel. They have been trained to take solutions
into their own hands. And two young boys did exactly that.
Don't
blame guns for this. Don't blame the Southern hunting culture. Don't blame
broken families. Don't blame innate juvenile cruelty either. Yes, they
all have some role. But the onus falls to our education
system. We are reaping the seeds they have
sown for nearly 100 years.
Blame
Jean Jacques-Rousseau and John Dewey for their promotion of child-centered
learning. Blame the NEA for having made manifest its 1918 Cardinal Principles.
Blame the Clinton administration, the 103rd Congress, and the USDOEd for
Goals 2000, peer remediation, conflict resolution and collaborative learning.
They
have co-conspirators. Blame the courts for
their absurd rulings nullifying parental and adult authority. Blame the
pop-psychologists for offering up the pap that judges and educators actually
swallow.
A
week before the Jonesboro tragedy a Seattle-area psychologist warned that
we
have created a generation of Lords of the Flies.Our
government, especially public education, has taught our children to reject
parental guidance. Immature kids have been trained to look to one
another for help in times of personal crisis.
Courts
rule that parents have no say in decisions related to their child's pregnancy.
In
some states, career guidance and academic counseling session with students
are treated with physician-patient confidentiality.Parents
are precluded from knowing what went on.
Gynecological
exams and cavity searches are conducted absent parental consent,
with no attendant present. Parents are denied access
to student portfolios and performance assessments. Students
are pulled out of class for group sessions, and
are told not to tell their parents. Administrators get livid when
parents demand to know what was discussed, and what records were kept.
Child
abuse laws are contorted in the most absurd manner. Parents
are threatened with child endangerment when they resist state usurpation
of their rights and responsibilities. As intrusive as these things
are, they just set the stage for the state's dirty work --
mind games -- to begin.
Administrators
and teachers chide parental views as "old-fashioned" and not sufficiently
"progressive." When on-campus tension exists, the kids are brought
in for conflict resolution therapy. Yes, it's therapy. Real
issues are glossed over with politically correct banalities. The real issues
are not addressed, only suppressed. They fester and smolder beneath the
surface.
The
students are taught that consensus is the order of the day. There must
be no strife-inducing dissension. Individualism is
subordinated to group- think. Principles are
capitulated in the name of harmony.
Schools
go to great lengths to promote consensus, collaboration and group think.
Then, ironically, we turn around and conduct realistic psycho-dramas to
counteract the deleterious effects of peer pressure. They
attempt to cancel the negative consequences of one set of mind games with
another set.
The
very adults who have trained these youngsters to not be assertive, to not
stand their ground on principles, to not show signs of individualism, can't
understand how a Jonesboro or Paducah can happen.
Well,
zero
tolerance laws won't fix it. Gun control won't
help. More conflict resolution won't stop
it. More training in how to recognize the
tell-tale signs won't end it. They're but
mere band-aids.
The
only thing that will help is to quit training our youngsters to look to
each other when serious troubles exist. Instead
of breeding Lords of the Flies, train them
to ask their parents. Or consult their clergy. Or find a teacher
or coach in whom they have confidence. Get peer remediation
out of our schools.
Get
conflict resolution out, too. This namby-pamby feel-good psychobabble,
politically correct nonsense pushes problems down so deep that the only
way they can be finally resolved is via a volcanic eruption. Conflict
resolution doesn't deter violence, it defers and amplifies it.
Minors
don't have full rights under the law because they aren't mature enough
to deal with life's tougher issues. Why train the
immature to seek help from the inexperienced under duress? It's
a formula for failure.
I
am deeply saddened about the Jonesboro tragedy. But
I am horrified that we have created a generation so detached that they
applaud a mass murder because they can not tell the difference between
what is real and what is not.
While
we hotly debate the academic issues of illiteracy and innumeracy, we also
have
to deal with the non-academic programs in our schools that are fostering
a generation of Lords of the Flies.
F.A.
Hayek once wrote that the real advantage of competition is that it punishes
foolish ideas. Public education, having no
real competition, has grown replete with foolish
ideas. We have to winnow out and punish these
foolish ideas.
As
I see it, competition is our only real hope that
this will ever happen.
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